How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why am I dreaming of people I've never seen before?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

Do you think covid 19 was never as bad as it got made out to be where we needed lockdowns and restrictions?

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If a person stops thinking one or two words in a second or half second means he had stopped thinking for half second?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Ask yourself:

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

We now told, by Senator Grassley, that on the FBI form about the Biden bribery story, there is a Burisma exec who says he has 17 tapes of his deal with the Biden. 15 of Hunter and 2 of Joe Biden? What would this do to Hunter/Joe Biden if released?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What are the psychological reasons behind an extreme obsession with another human being?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.